So by now you're probably wondering what this Secret Obsession is, right?

 

Hi, My name is James...

And just 90 seconds from now I'm going to let you in on something every man is secretly obsessed with.

It's Something He CRAVES...

More than love, more than money, even more than sex.

And the craziest part is this one secret obsession holds the key to winning a man's love, attention, and total devotion for LIFE but not one woman in a thousand even knows it exists!

And those that do almost never share it with another soul.

After 12 years of working with thousands of amazing women as a relationship coach, I've witnessed the secret male obsession to be the key to a man's heart.

Because once you understand it, you'll be able to make the man of your choice feel a burning desire for you that's so powerful that you'll literally become the most important person in his life.

The person he thinks about all day long.

And you'll also hear the real-life stories of women who used this same secret obsession to create the deepest love of their lives, all from seemingly "hopeless" situations and how you too can create the love you deserve.

Because no matter how bad your situation seems right now...

• Even if you're worried your man is losing interest after getting intimate with him too soon...
• Even if you've given up hope that your man will ever commit to you...
• And even if he's been completely ignoring your calls and texts

...it doesn't matter.

Because the moment you flip this secret trigger in a man's heart (a trigger so secret that 99% of women and men don't even know it exists) he'll feel a surge of desire for you that goes far beyond physical attraction... and makes him see you in a whole new light.

Without even realizing it, he'll start to picture you in his life and every other woman, past and present, will fade from his mind.

Because when you tap into a man's most primal, inner desire, you literally become his OBSESSION.

And even though he's starting to feel the deepest love connection of his life, he won't know why...

Because this secret flies completely under his radar.

So by now you're probably wondering what this Secret Obsession is, right?

Well, to put it simply, it's a recently discovered primal drive that ALL MEN are powerfully influenced by without even knowing it.

Every man you know agonizes over this primal drive more than anything else... Even his sex drive.

In fact, this drive is so hard-wired into a man's mind that is subconsciously controls everything he does.

From the time he wakes up to the moment his head hits the pillow at night.

It's something I've come to call...

"The Hero Instinct".

And I now believe it's the biggest secret to becoming a man's deepest passion and priority in life.

In fact, it doesn't matter how "in love" or "infatuated" a man is. If the woman he's with doesn't bring out his Hero Instinct, he'll always feel like something important is missing and he'll eventually seek out a woman who knows this secret.

On the other hand, when you know how to trigger a man's Hero Instinct, his heart will be yours, and yours alone. And he'll go to the ends of the Earth to make you happy.

The secret to long-term weight loss

The secret to long-term weight loss is doing the same healthy things over and over again.

Have you noticed that some people who have a personal trainer and consistently workout do not look any look different?

That’s because it’s what we do between exercise that really makes the difference. That being said 70% of weight loss comes from changes in diet.

There are three "ingredients" to weight loss.

1. Eating right (or Diet)
2. Exercising
3. Consistency

The third ingredient: Consistency is easily the most important, and the most difficult to accomplish. It takes accountability and a measured pace.

There’s a huge difference between knowing what to do, and actually doing it.

Diet:
The right diet will can help anyone lose weight for a few weeks. The problem with most diets is that they a) become boring b) are seen as temporary c) don’t actually change your habits and behaviors. We view a diet as something we will do until we reach our goal—and then quit, and go back to “old ways”. Most people never stick to their diets.

Instead of talking about your "diet", start talking about it as a way of life. The best “diets” are the ones you can truly stick with. It has to be a way of life, otherwise, you’re going to revert back to your old ways, and regain the weight.

Ultimately, the key to this is changing your relationship with food. If the only thing we’re changing is the food we’re eating from one “diet” to the next, we’re not going to change for the long term. If you have trouble sticking to a diet and/or exercise plan, it may because of an unknown fear related to losing weight—people are often as afraid of success as they are of failure.

Exercise:
One of the biggest problems with exercise is "binging and purging." (Note: This has nothing to do with food, bulimia, or anorexia.) As an example, "John" will decide he needs to lose 15 pounds before his wedding. He buys a gym membership and starts working out every day for 2 hours (binging).

By the end of the first week, he is completely exhausted. He decides to take a day off to recuperate and that day turns into a week (purging). When John feels sufficiently guilty, he will goes back to the gym and repeats the process. Again, like your diet, it has to be sustainable. But keep in mind: no one gains weight from not exercising. People gain weight from overeating.

Why do so many people struggle with their weight?

Consistency:
People aren’t staying consistent with their diet and/or exercise.

It’s all about consistency. It's easy to start a diet, but it’s very hard to stick with it. Same for exercise.

The real key to losing weight is not a magic diet, pill or exercise contraption. Rather, the key is finding ways to be consistent with diet and exercise. 

Remember, there's a huge difference between knowing what to do, and actually doing it.